Am I a Coward?

by Fred written last 2009-03-09
Fred felt OK when this was written

Me and my (ex) girlfriend celebrated our 3rd year anniversary a month ago. Unfortunately, the month ended together with our relationship.

To share with you my story, I'm actually the kind of guy who'd stick to one person. My ex however got me into a pretty uncomfortable situation where all you'd hear all day are childish dreams of settling down and marriage. Yes, she's that kind of annoying girl. I mean, come on and think about it,I'm still in my 3rd year through college.

It’s not that I didn't love her; it’s just that she saw life in a totally different way. I’m too young to head a family, moreso I want to enjoy my youth. I want to go around the world, see sights, experience other cultures, and eventually achieve my dreams.
Well, she didn’t like that idea. She wanted to look for a job right after school, get married, settle down, and have a family with me. Bite me, but she really is tough nut to crack regarding this thought.

The rest of the story is history, I eventually pulled the plug after months of dealing with such unworldly dreams (for my age at least). I feel bad though losing her and all, but how do you expect me to deal with her? People have been telling me that I've been a coward for leaving her, but then again, what is the solution? I've tried sitting her down to talk and discuss matters, but it really seemed like she was into her dreams.

Was I a coward like what people have been branding me? Or do you think what I did was just the right thing?

Your opinions would be much appreciated.