Break-Up Pub

Home > Falling Out Of Love

What People Are Saying:

  • 0% said "Fight for It!"
  • 75% said "Cool-Off!"
  • 25% said "Break-Up!"

Falling Out Of Love

by Marion written last 2009-04-12
Marion felt OK when this was written

Istock_000001908686xsmall
Is it a crime to fall out of love? Should I feel bad that now I believe my life’s misery is my girlfriend?

Harsh you say? Wait ā€˜til you read the rest of my story.

I, too, didn’t thought I’d feel this way towards her. After all, she was my best friend in college. We were so close then that we decided to take our relationship to the next level. But as soon as we made the relationship official, the enthusiasm also died down. Not a week would pass that we won’t fight mostly over petty things like why I don’t say ā€œI love youā€ often or why gave her a belated gift. She also gets mad that I sometimes forget to say, ā€œGood morning, Babe!ā€

She always starts these fights because she has so many issues. She’d become possessive and jealous about anything and everything. She was not like this at all when we were friends. She used to be the most understanding person in world. Now, she wants us to be always together. She checks my phone and my emails for possible signs of infidelity. If I befriend a girl, she goes ballistic. Oh, did I mention that she likes parties? Now that I am already working, I try my best to save for our future but I always end up giving her the money I saved because she overspent on partying. And each time I point out this to her, I’m just met with hostility. She would get nasty angry and call me names. She said I was being unsupportive and that she regrets being my girl.

I tried a couple of times to end up our relationship but she gets so emotional. Sometimes she threatens to kill herself if I leave her. She would promise to change her ways if I stayed with her but she always manage to go back to her old ways.

This year I met this wonderful girl from work. She’s the easiest person to talk to. I always enjoy our conversions during lunch break. Though I tried my best to suppress my feelings, I fell in love with her. I know she likes me, too. She’s perfect for me. I’m sure of that. I want to do the right thing and end my relationship with my girlfriend but as expected, she wouldn’t let me. My girlfriend eventually found out about the girl I now like. She managed to talk to her. Lately, this girl doesn’t want to talk to me anymore. I even saw her dating another guy from work. I couldn’t take this. I want to be with her. I also feel I’ve done everything to save my relationship with my girlfriend but I am just not happy with her anymore. There’s no more love; only unhappiness. What am I supposed to do?


Do you wish to subscribe to this post?

Comments [1]

  • Michelle | 2009-04-30

    I never thought I'd say this but here goes: DUMP THE BIATCH!

Choose Identity *

Anonymous Member Login
Username:Password

1. Make A Vote *

  • say "Fight for It!"
  • say "Cool-off!"
  • say "Break-Up!"

2. Say What's On Your Mind *

simple_captcha.jpg
(type the code from the image)

Break-Up Pub

Registration Successful!
Please Login To Use Break-Up Pub

About BUP

The Break-Up Pub is a community hub for the emotionally hurt, the broken-hearted, and those who have lack-luster relationships. Moreover, it is also a haven for souls in search for solace and solutions.

Sign-Up to BUP

Registration | cancel

* Required Fields

  • Salutation
  • First Name *
  • Last Name *
  • Gender *
    Male Female
  • Date of Birth *
  • Country *
  • Email Address *
  • User Name *
  • Password * min 6-8 char
  • Confirm Password *
  • Photo
  • Security Code *
    simple_captcha.jpg
    (type the code from the image)
  • I agree to Terms and Conditions *