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What People Are Saying:
- 46% said "Fight for It!"
- 15% said "Cool-Off!"
- 38% said "Break-Up!"
He Now Loves Me Less
by
Lucille
written last 2009-05-14
Lucille felt Like Crap when this was written
I’d like to believe that Luke is and has always been faithful to me. But his lack of enthusiasm whenever we’re together is just bothering me lately. He used to fetch me after my ballet class and we’d go to Central Park for our routine long walks. We’d usually spend our weekends outdoors. Now, all he wants to do is sleep all day or watch the sports channel.
Luke and I meet two years ago in a pottery class. We started dating 3 months after meeting each other. I teased him a lot back then coz he was the only male in our class. He told me he likes my spunk and how I deal with life. I, on the other hand, admired his gentle hands when he’s molding pots. I also love that he’s the only one who can make me laugh and cry at the same time.
I have dated so many guys in my entire adult life but Luke stands out from all of them. I love this guy so much that’s why it hurts big time to see him drift away from me. I don’t recall any big fight that we had. No lingering issues. Even when he was starting “ignoring” me, I never complained.
Just last night, he called to let me know he’s leaving tomorrow morning for Boston for a business trip. He said he’d be away for two weeks. This is the first time he gave me a short notice. I’m also pissed off that he forgot that next week is our anniversary. I have already bought his favorite Paul Pierce shirt! What kind of a guy does this to the woman he loves?!
I’m planning to confront him when he gets back. Maybe it’s time I get an answer. I could no longer take this kind of treatment because I don’t deserve it. If Luke wants out of this relationship, I won’t stop him. Love shouldn’t be forced to anyone. I’m tired of understanding him and guessing what’s wrong with him…me…us! Has he found somebody new? I certainly want to meet her. Am I not that attractive anymore? What did I do to make him love me less? Aaahhhhhhh!!! I can’t take this! I’m starting to cry again.
Comments [14]
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anonymous | 2009-07-04
Hmm... Hmm...
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anonymous | 2009-07-04
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anonymous | 2009-07-04
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anonymous | 2009-07-04
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John | 2009-06-21
He doesn't love you. Move on Girl. :)
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anonymous | 2009-05-25
Well, in any relationship I would say there comes a tapering off moment. There's such a thing as a honeymoon stage at the beginning of a relationship, and those don't last. And remember, you and your boyfriend still have your own lives. Perhaps it would be best to talk to him about it rather than demand it[why he isn't as affectionate as before] since he also has other preoccupations as I am sure you have you own as well. After that talk you can probably have a better idea if you still want to be with him or break up with him.
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anonymous | 2009-05-20
Hmm... Hmm...
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anonymous | 2009-05-18
You said it yourself. You're tired. Kill it.
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anonymous | 2009-05-14
HAHAHA! Do some justice to Lucille guys!
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Curtis | 2009-05-14
@ Vera: hahaha ESPIONAGE?! Are these things still being done today? @ Lucille: Go look at his social networking pages, perhaps scour his Facebook, Myspace, or Twitter, and you might find some juicy details. You wouldn't know!
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Cecille | 2009-05-14
@ Vera, now that's ultra-fail!
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Vera | 2009-05-14
Time heals everything! Wait! Hire a detective and execute an espionage! LOL
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Cecille | 2009-05-14
Well, just wait for him and confront him. No point arguing if you can talk things out properly. Besides, it always better to know the truth because at the very least, you have no blind eye over the matter.
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Karla | 2009-05-14
You said you are tired of virtually everything! Snap out of it and bury the hatchet! Break-up for good!
